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“A Man and His Wife”
Categories: Christian Principles
In the early 1950s, Ray Robinson was working in Troy, Alabama with Goodyear. The son of the woman who owned the boarding house where he was staying once told Ray, “I have someone that I’d like for you to meet.” He took him across town to Troy State University and introduced him to a young lady from Fort Deposit, Alabama who was studying to be a teacher. Her name: Louise Moorer. Ray and Louise went on a date. Six months later they were married.
When Ray and Louise got married, Ray was on a two-week leave from the Air Force. He was stationed at Scott Air Force Base in Illinois. He drove down from Illinois to Fort Deposit, got Louise, drove over to Mississippi – because you could get married a lot more quickly there – and Ray married a woman of noble character that would be his loving companion and closest friend for 65 years.
Those 65 years brought them great joys and deep sorrows, including the loss of a son, a daughter, and their one remaining son paralyzed from the waist down in a car accident. But through it all, their love for one another and their faith in God remained strong.
One evening after their 60th wedding anniversary, their granddaughter, Mary Kent, asked Ray about the secret to a long and happy marriage. He looked at her in the eyes and smiled. He said, “Oh, that one’s easy. Just two words… ‘Yes ma’am!’”
Reflecting on that moment, Mary Kent recently wrote: “I wish, in that moment, he had been behind the camera to capture the sheepish smile that he could still put on my grandmother’s face after all those years. It was the kind of smile that can only come out of the gratitude for being deeply and unquestionably adored.”
When Louise was diagnosed Alzheimer’s disease late in her life, Ray stayed by her side, caring for her, until she died. He would tell you he was only reciprocating the loving care she had always provided for him.
The Bible instructs: “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her” (Ephesians 5:25). How did Christ love the church?
Selflessly: Jesus put the needs of others – our needs – above His own. Our greatest need is salvation from sin. Jesus took our sins upon Himself and died on the cross so that we can be reconciled to God through Him (1 Peter 2:24; 2 Corinthians 5:17-21).
Sacrifically: He “gave Himself for her,” Paul says. He purchased the church with His own blood (Acts 20:28), for only His blood can cleanse us from sin (1 John 1:7).
God will save from sin, add to the church, and give eternal life to those who place their faith and trust in Jesus (Acts 16:30-31), turn from sin in repentance (Acts 17:30-31), confess Jesus before men (Romans 10:9-10), and are baptized (immersed) into Christ for the forgiveness of sins (Acts 2:38). He will continue to cleanse from sin those who continue to walk in the light of His Word (1 John 1:7-9).
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her” (Ephesians 5:25). Do you want to know what that looks like? Consider the love of Ray Robinson for his dear wife, Louise. That love is worthy of emulation.
Submit your life to Christ and love others like Christ loves you. I think that’s what Ray would tell us, for that is the way that he lived and loved.
-- David A. Sargent
* In loving memory of Raymond Kent Robinson, Sr. (6/4/1929 - 10/13/2021) and Louise Moorer Robinson (2/25/1931 – 6/8/2017). Until we meet again.
David A. Sargent, Minister
Church of Christ at Creekwood
1901 Schillinger Rd. S.
Mobile, Alabama 36695
