Imagine for a moment your business is failing or a project you are working on is not going the way it is supposed to; what would you do? My guess is most of us would do everything we could to correct the problems. We might contact someone who has experience in the area you are working and ask them to help you. A person might even go and get more training or education to help them to improve the situation. The point is most of us would just not let our business or project fail without trying our very best to correct the problems and improve the situation.
Now what about our families? What if our family is falling apart, what are we going to do about it? I find it interesting how little thought; we often give our families and marriages today in light of scripture. Shouldn’t we put as much effort or even more than we would if it was our business or a project we might be working on?
The one thing that the Bible is clear on is that we should do what we can to help improve and strengthen our family relationships; after all family is a God designed institution as we see in Genesis 2:21-24.
In order to begin helping our families the first thing each family must do is to put God first. Matthew 6:33 teaches us to, “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” No matter how bad things may be with one’s family the first step is always putting God first, start studying His Word, praying, and get involved with the worship and work of the church (Heb. 10:25).
Once God is in His proper place in our family the next thing to do is rekindle our relationship with our spouse. Again Genesis 2:21-24 reminds us that when a husband and wife come together, they are to leave their home of origin and cleave to each other. Adam in Genesis 2:23 also recognized that Eve was his lifelong love and mate. In Genesis 2:24 points out the couple become “one flesh” is only recognized in marriage and is pointing to sexual intimacy, the raising of children and the weaving together of two lives into one. All other forms of sexual intimacy, raising of children and the weaving of lives is either unlawful, ungodly, or made more difficult when God’s design is avoided or ignored. The wisdom and warning in Proverbs 5:1-23 compares the way of immorality and the way of God’s design for marriage and God’s way is always the best.
But last when God and one’s spouse are receiving the proper attention in the family, then children need to be helped. Malachi 2:15, instructs, “Did he not make them one, with a portion of the Spirit in their union? And what was the one God seeking? Godly offspring. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and let none of you be faithless to the wife of your youth.” God desires godly offspring, and in this passage the implication is that the husband and wife play a major role in this.
Children need to be taught how to put God first in their lives, this does not come naturally. Children learn from observing, listening, and relating to their parents. Research tells us that, “parents are teaching their children about God’s plan in their lives around the clock.” If our children see us reading the Bible, praying, obeying the word of God in our daily life and wanting to be involved in the worship assemble, more than often our children will want to do these things as well.
If our families need help, will we put the effort into them to get them to be as God designed? Think about it. Written by Mark T. Tonkery
Academically motivated students all over the country work very hard in high school to have a good GPA and get good test scores. Their goal is to get into a good college with a scholarship. To get in these places they will study for hours. They will take practice tests on their computers. They may even beg their parents to pay for private tutoring. To have this good education they will make sacrifices, saying no to anything that gets in the way of this goal. And all this happens while another place of “higher learning” exists. If you get in this place you will learn much more than what you could discover in Harvard or Yale. “Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known” (1 Corinthians 13:12).Those who are financially wise know that to get the most out of their money they need to make investments. So these people will put a part of their income aside and put into their retirement. This requires discipline and sacrifice but the rewards they will receive at retirement are worth it to them. All of this happens while much greater rewards exist. “But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal” (Matthew 6:20).Don’t you see? People work harder for rewards on earth than they do for MUCH greater rewards in heaven! This must be a question of confidence. People have greater faith in worldly things then in the existence of heavenly ones. If someone really believes in heaven then there is no effort or sacrifice they wouldn’t make to get there. If we really believe we would be willing to join the heroes of faith in Hebrews 11. “Some faced jeers and flogging, while still others were chained and put in prison. They were stoned; they were sawed in two; they were put to death by the sword. They went about in sheepskins and goatskins, destitute, persecuted and mistreated –the world was not worthy of them” (Hebrews 11:36-38). And why were they willing to go through these terrible trials for the cause of Christ? Because they loved Jesus and believed in heaven! I pray we do as well!
- Doug Wells
In Exodus 20: 8-11 God instructed the Hebrews to take a day off. It is in this passage that one learns that the Sabbath was commanded by the Lord, because in six days He made the Heavens and the earth and on the seventh day He rested (Gen. 2:3). For centuries as seen in the Old Testament and till the time of Christ, Jews rested and observed the seventh day of the week as a Sabbath unto the Lord.
Yet today Biblical Christians meet on the Lord’s Day, the first day of the week, Sunday as they have since the beginning of the church in Acts 2. The shift in the calendar was monumental. Something catastrophic happened to effect this change in the day of worship from Jewish Sabbath, to the first day according to the Jewish calendar!
This monumental event that changed history was the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ, as we read in the Gospels (Matthew 28:1, Mark 16:2, 9, Luke 24:1, and John 20:1, 19) which are eyewitness accounts that Jesus Christ arose from the tomb on the first day of the week.
After his resurrection, we never find Christ meeting with his disciples on the seventh day or Sabbath day. But He specially honored the first day by manifesting Himself to the apostles and others on four separate occasions (Matt. 28:9; Luke 24:34, 18–33; John 20:19–23). Again, on the next first day of the week, Jesus appeared to his disciples (John 20:26).
Nothing but the resurrection of Jesus Christ could change the day of honoring the Lord from the Sabbath to the first day of the week.
Many centuries before Christ, some tradesmen who resented keeping the Sabbath day came to the prophet of the Lord, Amos and demanded to know, “When will the new moon be gone, that we may sell corn? and the Sabbath that we may set forth wheat, making the ephah small and the shekel great, and falsifying the balances of deceit? “(Amos 8:5).
Amos responded in Amos 8:9, “"And on that day," declares the Lord GOD, "I will make the sun go down at noon and darken the earth in broad daylight.”
Scripture confirms just as Amos prophesied that the Sabbath was abolished when God darkened the earth in a clear day and the sun went down at noon. This of course happened when Jesus was crucified; as a result the Sabbath day was nailed to his cross as we see in Matthew 27:51ff.
Then Col. 2:14-16 clearly states, "Having canceled out the certificate of debt consisting of decrees against us and which was hostile to us; and He has taken it out of the way, having nailed it to the cross. When He had disarmed the rulers and authorities, He made a public display of them, having triumphed over them through Him. Therefore let no one act as your judge in regard to food or drink or in respect to a festival or a new moon or a Sabbath day- things which are a mere shadow of what is to come; but the substance belongs to Christ."
These verses clearly state the weekly Sabbath was nailed to the cross and abolished. In reading the rest of the New Testament, we also find that Jesus and the inspired writers taught all the commandments of the Ten Commandments, except for the fourth commandment, the Sabbath law. There is no command in the teachings of Christ for any person to keep the Sabbath. Again, the Sabbath, along with the rest of the Old Testament were nailed to the cross. The only day given special recognition in the new covenant is the first day of the week, Sunday. (Mt. 28:1; Mk. 16:2, 9; Lk. 24:1; Jn. 20:1; 19; Acts 2:1; 20:7; 1 Cor. 16:2; Rev. 1:10).
Let us not forget that the first Christians were originally Jews, as recorded in Acts 2. The beginning of the church began with Jews becoming Christians (Acts 2:38; 41; 47). The Day of Pentecost was the 50th day after the Sabbath of Passover week (Lev. 23:15-16), thus the first day of the week. So not only is the first day of the week Resurrection day it is also the day the church began, and when Christians worshiped the Lord. For these early Jewish Christians to continue to assemble on the first day of the week would be a clear distinction that they had abandoned the keeping of the Sabbath and Judaism all together.
Christians are not bound to keep the Sabbath, but they are commanded to worship the Lord together (Heb. 10:19–25). Because of the power and influence of the resurrection of Jesus Christ, Christ’s fulfilling prophecy of the Old Testament, the New Testament examples of worship on the first day of the week and the teachings of the New Testament that show the early Christian abandoning the Sabbath and the Old Law; Christians are to worship the Lord on the first day of every week.
Written by Mark T. Tonkery
I am happy to announce that our family is now moved into our new home in Belpre. We love the house and have wonderful dreams about ministry that can happen there. However, I must admit that moving did not go as smoothly as we hoped. Some of our possessions were in an uncovered trailer. After checking the weather in Michigan (which said clear skies all day) we thought it would be okay. We should have checked the weather in southern Ohio too I suppose. After driving a few miles first it dumped snow, then it rained, then it hailed, then it snowed some more. We scraped a half inch of ice off our stuff when we got there. Additionally, the U-Haul got stuck in a ditch when we tried to back it up into our narrow drive, requiring a wrecker at two in the morning. Gasoline from the tipped lawn mower got dumped on our best mattress. A few other pieces of furniture got wrecked in transition. And you know what? It’s okay. All of these are temporary things. “For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all” (2 Corinthians 4:17).
My troubles are temporary and my best blessings are forever. Whatever minor trial we go through does not come close to comparing to all the good that is in store for me as a Christian person. By comparison even a severe illness, even the complete loss of all our possessions, even being separated from one another for a time is a “light and momentary trouble.” This is one of the many reasons I am so happy to be a Christian. I know that even if I have to walk through some dark valleys God is always leading me to good places. What hope do you have if you do not follow the Lord? What hope do you have as your body wears out and your possessions rust and break and those you love pass away? I’m sure I know several people who would fall to pieces if their table or their T.V. broke in the U-Haul. Without Christ they have no hope of anything better.
Let all who belong to Christ know that our hope is great. Let’s say along with David: “Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever” (Psalm 23:6). Whether God gives or takes away let us praise His name! His presence in our lives is worth far more than any material thing we could hope to gain. His love is more precious than any costly jewel. These are blessings that can never be taken from me. They are blessings I enjoy now, they are blessings I will enjoy in the house of the Lord forever. If you cannot say the same I encourage you to put your treasure in a different place. Then all of your troubles will seem light and momentary compared to the eternal glory that outweighs them all.
Written by Doug Wells
Proverbs 11:30 states, “The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life; and he that wins souls is wise.”
The New Testament continues to emphasize the winning of souls by teaching us to make disciples in Matthew 28:19 and Mark 16:15-16. Once one has been won to Christ, we are to continue being taught. In Acts 2:42 it tells us to be devoted to the apostles’ teaching, fellowship, breaking of bread and prayer. Acts 8:39 tells us to continue to rejoice in our salvation. In I Corinthians 1:17 it tells us to keep preaching the gospel. When each Christian makes disciples, teaching the gospel, fellowshipping, praying, rejoicing and serving we will win souls. According to Acts 2:47 and Acts 16:5 this is what the church did in the first century; they won souls daily.
When was the last time you “won a soul for Christ”? When was the last time you taught someone the scriptures about how to become a Christian? When was the last time you saw a person baptized and become a new creation in Christ? When was the last time you invited someone to worship services?
We have seen the church winning souls in the past and now it is time to get back to winning souls for Christ. Unfortunately, too many Christians are just baptized and are not involved in the work of winning souls for Christ. For too many Christians, have not been taught that Christianity is a total conversion and commitment to the cause of Christ, which includes winning souls for Christ.
One’s conversion is just the beginning of one’s salvation. God wants our whole hearts, minds, bodies, and actions. He wants us to be totally converted to His cause. God wants every Christian doing and modeling His will in our daily lives. “I have been crucified with Christ; and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself up for me.” (Gal. 2:20) Can this statement be our statement, have we crucified our souls, minds, hearts, bodies, and actions with Christ? Are we totally committed to Christ and winning souls for the Kingdom of God?
Written by Mark T. Tonkery