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What to do when I cannot go to Church Services?

Wednesday, March 18, 2020

Tonk Talk

As I think about the current situation, with the coronavirus, it is very hard to know what to do socially and with regards to the church. I admit I am the first one to suggest that we should not cancel our worship services, but as I listen to different health care professionals and the warnings of our government, some people should not be out because of health reasons due to the coronavirus. During this unprecedented situation, we find ourselves making changes in our daily life to help us to avoid and not spread this virus.  One of those changes we see Christians having to make is to our regular times of worship and Bible study.  

So, what should we do if cannot get out to church services or what if our worship services and Bible study time are canceled? Here are some suggestions:


·Have a family devotional.  As we read in the Book of Acts, we see that many times the early Christians met in their homes for worship, prayer, Bible study, sing, and partook of the Lord’s Supper (Acts 5:42; 12:12; 16:15; 16:34) we may very well have to do this temporarily until this virus passes.

·Read your Bible, pray and sing.  It might be you have no family and are unable to get out due to health reasons.  So, you might want to take the example of Paul and Silas in Acts 16:25 who were in prison yet prayed and sang.  Or John the Apostle in Rev. 1:10. He was in the Spirit on the Lord’s Day.  John was unable to assemble with the church so he did what he could and spent time with God anyway.

·Other suggestions might be to listen to a gospel sermon on tape, CD, or online.  Camden Ave. has many past sermons on our web page, other faithful congregations’ live stream their services as well.  One could also go to In Search of the Lord’s Way website and watch their programs, as well as the GBN TV program  or WVBS each can be looked upon the internet so one could watch their lessons.  There are other webpages with sermons from our brotherhood: and don’t forget Bible Call.


We need to remember that just because one cannot make the services at the church building does not mean it is a day off from school or from work in which it is a free day to do whatever we want.  Heb. 10:25 is still commanded and although we might be prevented from assembling for one reason or another, we need to still spend time with God and His people as best we can.  Remember John the Apostle as he was banished to the Island of Patmos, for his faith, still spent time with God, on the Lord’s Day (Rev. 1:10), may we strive to do the same if we are unable to assemble with the Body of Christ.

I realize that change is difficult, but I believe we are in a situation where we are forced to change, but we must not be forced to give up our time with God and our fellowship with one another.  These suggestions are an effort to encourage each one to grow in our faith with God and our fellowship with one another, while at the same time trying to guard the health of our members and community during this unusual time.  

Written by Mark T. Tonkery, Minister Camden Ave. Church of Christ: 

Jealousy Costs You Blessings

Sunday, March 01, 2020

Doug’s Discussion    


   Children do not always get the same blessing at the same time.  Which, of course, can cause some problems with jealousy.  “Why does SHE get to go to a friend’s house today?”  “Why does HE get to buy candy?”  Listen kid, some days it’s your day and some days it’s not.  And let me share with you one reason why the jealous response is unwise: it’s a great way to guarantee you won’t participate in the blessing.  One kid gets candy and another become jealous.  Jealous kid gives candy kid a real hard time.  What does that do to the odds candy kid shares?  Wouldn’t being happy for someone increase the odds you get to share in their blessing?  I think so.  

   Jesus taught in many places.  He did miracles in many places.  He had tremendous gifts, given to Him by His Father.  But Jesus did not hoard these gifts for His own purposes.  He freely shared with thousands.  But . . . there was one place where Jesus did not do very many miracles.  It was the place that I believe was most filled with jealously.  In His hometown they said “Where did this man get these things? . . . What’s this wisdom that has been given him, that he even does miracles?” (Mark 6:2)  Or, in other words, why does THIS guy have the candy and I don’t?  They took offence at Jesus.  Their failure to acknowledge that God gave Jesus these gifts, and that they should be happy about it, led to less sick people being healed.    

   Our Heavenly Father loves all His children.  All are given generous gifts – just not all the same ones at the same time.  I humbly suggest that you be okay with that.  Do you think being bitter about someone else’s blessing would compel God to give you more?  I think it is more likely to have the opposite effect!  What’s more, your resentment will close the door to you sharing in the blessing of another.  It’s harder to share with a grump.  So, bottom line, be thankful for the gifts God gives you.  Be equally thankful for the gifts God gives others.  That will keep jealously from costing you blessings.   

Someone Else’s Promise

Sunday, February 09, 2020

Doug's Discussion


When our lives are over most of us like to be buried with our families.  People in Old Testament times were no different – they wanted to be “gathered to their people” (Genesis 15:15, Numbers 20:24, etc.).  Unfortunately, there were cases where the family gravesite was really far away.  

   Joseph had that problem.  He died in Egypt, miles away from where he wanted to be buried.  “And Joseph made the sons of Israel swear an oath and said, ‘God will surely come to your aid, and then you must carry my bones up from this place’” (Genesis 50:25).  I don’t know if God gave Joseph a timetable for His plan, but the day God came to their aid was hundreds of years later.  The people who promised to move his remains were long gone by the time of the exodus from Egypt.  And digging up bones is . . . icky.  I guess the people who were leaving had an excuse to not dig up bones if they wanted it.  “I didn’t make that promise.  Great, great, great granddad did.  Not my problem.”  

   Also, I suppose it could be claimed that this promise was coerced.  They were “made” to swear this oath.  Joseph was the second most powerful man in Egypt.  If he asks for something you say yes.  There’s another excuse for anyone who wanted one.  And yet, hundreds of years later, “Moses took the bones of Joseph with him” (Exodus 13:19).   A promise was made before God – and when the time came the promise was kept.  From what I read in Scripture nobody looked for any of the available excuses, they just did it because they said they would.  This is a remarkable instance of keeping a promise across many generations.  

   How many of us have trouble keeping our own promises?  Would we be so quick to extend our obligations to those connected to us?  If your grandfather accidently orders more popcorn from the little girl who is fundraising than he can afford would you step in to fulfill that obligation?  (And how grumpy would you be about it?)  If someone at church tells someone who needs a ride to services that they will pick them up, but then their car breaks down, would you inconvenience yourself to go get them instead?  I don’t think Israel would have been quite so blessed if they began their nation with breaking a promise.  I love that they put themselves out to preserve the honor of their people.  

If you have opportunity, especially as a Christian person, I encourage you to do the same.  

Love keeping promises SO much that you’re even willing to keep someone else’s.

What is keeping the Church from Growing?

Sunday, February 09, 2020

 Like plants God has designed the church to grow.  It grows when it has the right environment for growing.  

   Notice 1 Cor. 3:6, tells us, “I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth.”            

   So, what is keeping our congregation from growing?  Well there are at least three things that prevent a congregation from growing.  There maybe be other things, but I believe they would all fall in one or more of the following areas.            

   First, population of people.  If a congregation does not have people, it will not grow numerically or relationally.  The church needs people.  We are in the people business, saving the lost and keeping the saved, saved (Lk. 19:20, and Eph. 2:10).  Many congregations are not growing because the population of the area has declined.  For example, in the Parkersburg area when Camden Ave. was at its largest the community’s population was also growing.  For the last several years the area has seen a population decline. In the 1960’s the population of Parkersburg was over 45,000.  Today the population of Parkersburg is around 29,000.  This decline is going to influence the congregation in a negative way.  On the other hand, if one would look at communities that have a growing population, then often the church in that area is growing as well.  The population effects church growth.            

   Second, and connected to the population, is the economy of an area.  This also effects church growth.  People go where the jobs are.  If an area has no good paying jobs, then they leave the area looking for work or if they cannot leave, they are forced to make whatever income they can, which is usually less.  This influences the church because people will not have the financial resources to give to help support the work of the church.  When the church is in a low-income area, it is harder to maintain a church building, support the minister, do evangelistic works, and mission efforts.  Although some might argue that we really do not need money to do the Lord’s Work, to preach, teach, and minister to people; maybe there is a truth here, but the reality is we do live in a society that is money based and it can greatly influence the growth and work of the church.  After all, it is hard to keep the lights on, repair a roof, or print gospel literature when there are no funds to do such work.            

   Finally, another essential part of church growth, is spiritual teaching and Christian living.  A congregation can have hundreds, even thousands of people, it can be rich, and have members who are great givers in the congregation, but if the preaching and teaching of the church are not scripturally sound and its members are not living by the truth of God’s word, then the church is dead spiritually.   Remember the example of the church in Laodicea, Rev. 3:17, “For you say, I am rich, I have prospered, and I need nothing, not realizing that you are wretched, pitiable, poor, blind, and naked.”  Sin to the church, is like throwing weed killer on one’s garden it will destroy everything it touches.  Sin is described in Mark 7:20-23 and 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 as those things that are contrary to the will of God.  So, for the church to grow, we must stop sinning and live obediently to God.   Jesus states in Luke 13:5 unless we repent all will perish.   We must also understand that repentance is not just about helping the church grow but being made right with Almighty God.  

What do you need to repent of?  (Part 2 of this article will continue in next week’s bulletin)

God Bless,

Mark T.  

God’s Power Prevails

Thursday, January 30, 2020

  Doug's Discussion


   After being plucked out of the water by Pharaoh’s daughter Moses grew up among the Egyptians.  However, something clued him in to the fact that he wasn’t Egyptian by birth.  In fact, he even knew about the one true God.  I’m guessing his mother or one of his siblings had something to do with that somehow.  However he found out, Moses began to identify less with the Egyptians and more with his own people.  (And think how remarkable that is!  The Egyptians were rich and his own people were slaves.)  “He chose to be mistreated along with the people of God rather than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a short time” (Hebrews 11:25).  When Moses sees an Egyptian and an Israelite fighting he comes to the side of the Israelite, killing the Egyptian and hiding him in the sand.    

   Those who know this story know that this effort was less appreciated than expected.  Stephen shares, “Moses thought that his own people would realize that God was using him to rescue them, but they did not” (Acts 7:25).  So Moses knows of God, and He knows God would want His people to be rescued from slavery.  Moses’ plan is, apparently, to take the abusive Egyptians out one at a time.  There IS a lot of sand in Egypt to hide bodies . . . but this was never going to work.  Moses was trying to accomplish God’s purposes without God’s power.  This leads to Moses getting banished to tend sheep in the desert, until he is “a very humble man, more humble than anyone else on the face of the earth” (Numbers 12:3).  NOW God can use Moses to rescue the people.  Now Moses knows he can do nothing without God.    

   Hopefully this is a lesson we can learn without forty years in a desert.  We also are a people who know of God, and we have some idea of the work that God wants to accomplish.  The zealous among us dive in and strive to accomplish great victories for the kingdom.  But may I suggest a very wise thing to do first?  We should humble ourselves and pray.  We should pray for the strength of God in whatever we are trying to do.  God is able to accomplish in moments what would take us more than a lifetime to achieve on our own.  Are you about to begin some ministry?  Fantastic!  But if you want to avoid going about God’s work in all the wrong ways I suggest starting with a season of prayer.  

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